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Re: Compassion

Postby Ausgirl » Sat Apr 14, 2012 11:22 am

So, there's probably a few who feel I don't deserve to post here anymore as I've said I'm out - and to hell with that, I can make exceptions if I wanna. Sue me. ;) Next:

I think this place is on a very slippery slope right now. Think back to the Cabin28 board and the amount of ill-feeling and fragmentation of community there. That, as I see it, is where this all might be heading.

Pacific Ghost & Sheila, I fully understand your being offended, and I don't blame you for standing up for yourself and your loved ones. Maybe, though, try to find it in yourself to see that looky-lou's do NOT bury themselves for years in endless hours of boring research just for the thrill of it. These are people who actually care and implying somebody spends that time and effort here because of some fundamental lack inside themselves... that's really not very decent of you. Can we try to have a little compassion all round? I'm pretty sure we're all good folks under all the internet BS, after all.

Dmac. It just gets me down, the way you speak to and about people. Josh, this is YOUR board, which represents YOUR documentaries - maybe you need to step in now and then when things get out of hand... And FFS -- taking away the option to edit our own posts now...? :shock: Do you think this is a great idea? Really? Was this your idea, Josh? Do you really think we're such a bunch of little kids that this sort of policing is necessary? If so, and to be fair, how about we also remove the ability for -anyone- to redact chunks out of the chatroom log as well?

I really hope this site can get back to being a collection of minds working for the same ends, and not against each other. It'd be a pity to watch it go to hell, after all this time and effort.

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Re: Compassion

Postby Chichibcc » Sat Apr 14, 2012 12:01 pm

I have already brought this up in chat last night, but I'd also like to mention it here.

If Sheila is supposedly lying so much, why would she have even agreed to participate on the forum and in the documentaries in the first place?

We need to remember that she didn't have to be involved with any of this. She could've easily said no to Josh if there were things she wanted to hide, knowing that a lot of info would be put out there, yet she didn't.
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Re: Compassion

Postby Eastern » Sat Apr 14, 2012 12:54 pm

Aus, my understanding was the editing feature was taken away so no one could erase what they posted and then later claim they never posted "that" and use their claim to attack others. I agree that it would be a shame if this all turns into another cabin 28.

Chich, I love ya, but don't be naive. Different things motivate different people. There's no "if" about it. Sheila said certain things that were untrue and then went on the attack when people pointed that out in chat.

Pacific, your tactics remind me so much of Spencer.

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Re: Compassion

Postby Chichibcc » Sat Apr 14, 2012 2:19 pm

Eastern wrote:Chich, I love ya, but don't be naive. Different things motivate different people. There's no "if" about it. Sheila said certain things that were untrue and then went on the attack when people pointed that out in chat.


I'm not trying to be naive...I just wanted to point out that it made absolutely no sense for her to become part of this forum/documentaries if there were "skeletons in the closet" that she had to know from the get-go were probably were going to have to come out, sooner or later.

It would've just been easier for her not to to so, but like other things associated with this case, I guess it's not quite that simple.
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Re: Compassion

Postby Ausgirl » Sat Apr 14, 2012 2:43 pm

Well I just read the chat archive. For the sake of clarity - I did not give PacificGhost "an A for English" at all - I made no comment on his use of English. What I did was point out how petty it is to attack somebody on the basis of their vocabulary. I don't know what calling me names is meant to achieve, either. Iunno.. makes you feel like big people? All it's done, really, is given me the distinct impression that some of you need to grow the fuck up.

Ooh look, something else to bitchfest about. Enjoy.
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Re: Compassion

Postby Eastern » Sat Apr 14, 2012 7:46 pm

Chich, a lot of things people have done surrounding this case, make zero sense on the surface. Hasn't stopped them from doing them. Anyway, I think it's a moot point, since she did precisely what people claim she did. There's no speculation about whether she did or didn't.
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Re: Compassion

Postby Chichibcc » Sun Apr 15, 2012 4:05 pm

Also, it can be difficult for some people to remember what they were doing just two or three years ago, much less 31 years ago...just because one version of events may differ from what was said earlier doesn't mean she's being deceptive....it can be hard to remember every little detail from so long ago if you're just going off of memory alone.
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Re: Compassion

Postby PacificGhost » Sun Apr 15, 2012 4:39 pm

Ausgirl
I certainly did not mean to imply that there are not good dedicated people who care about this case, or that there is a fundamental flaw in people who diligently research the murders. Sheila is very grateful for those people. I was simply pointing out a type of zealotry that is evident in the posts of a specific few. If I have offended you in anyway I apologize.
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Re: Compassion

Postby Chichibcc » Tue Apr 17, 2012 11:38 am

Eastern wrote:Chich, a lot of things people have done surrounding this case, make zero sense on the surface. Hasn't stopped them from doing them.


Trust me, I completely agree with you on that one...but those other individuals had/have nothing to gain by coming forward with what they know in order for the case to be solved.That's not the case with Sheila, however.
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Re: Compassion

Postby dmac » Tue Apr 17, 2012 2:49 pm

Unless they're stalling the case by misdirecting. And that's happened.
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Re: Compassion

Postby Chichibcc » Mon May 05, 2014 12:11 pm

What a difference two years makes in regards to a perspective shift.

I feel that, in my previous posts above, I had Sheila on something of a pedestal, which blinded me from seeing what really happening.

Eastern wrote: Different things motivate different people.


Yes, very true.
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Re: Compassion

Postby dmac » Fri Mar 25, 2016 4:28 pm

The guy who started this thread, whining about 'compassion', is the same guy who wrote the 'book' Sheila released, where his name, Tofu Dick, appeared in block letters on the cover while Sheila's was in fine print. He's also the same guy who created a fake publishing house and then created a couple websites. He then set up a fake account here, posting as the fake editor, Michael Nash, at his fake publishing house, Free Spirit.

A few months after the book sank without trace, he released a second book, a collection of cocktail recipes. Whether you deem the book pornographic or not, the fact he pitched his book side-by-side with Sheila's story on his website should tell you all you need to know about the cretin.

The reason for this post is today I accidentally found some vids he'd deleted from his YouTube accounts a long time ago. Tofu Dick had many accounts on YouTube a couple years back, but I missed this one, and it still holds a few of the disgusting vids he made to promote his 'book'.

Grab a barf bag, then press 'play':





Note how he stars in his vids, but Sheila's nowhere to be found.
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